P&P200: The Longbourn Ladies Go Shopping for Wedding Clothes

From The Gallery of Fashion, 1796, by Niklaus Von Heideloff

“Carriage dresses, dinner dresses, evening dresses, full evening dresses, garden dresses, morning dresses, opera dresses, promenade dresses, theater dresses, walking dresses.” Mrs. Bennet silently checked the list in her hand, sure she’d forgotten to jot down some important event for which her eldest daughters would need to be properly attired.

The coach swayed then bounced through a pothole, and Mrs. Bennet heard the coachman’s muffled curse. She frowned, but then shrugged. At least they would not have to find their footing with care in the foul streets.

“We must thank my Uncle Gardiner’s for arranging the carriage.” Her eldest daughter, Jane, sat between Mrs. Bennet and Mrs. Gardiner. “It’s a beautiful day to go shopping for wedding clothes.”

“And we must thank you to my father for his blunt,” Lizzy said from her seat directly across Mrs. Bennet. “However did you manage to persuade my father to put off buying the horses for the farm another year, Maman?”

“Bah! What are horses to having one’s daughters dressed properly?” Mrs. Bennet glanced out the carriage window on her side. Nothing but a pile of cobbles. She turned back to her list and smiled to herself. After some wifely exertion on her part, Mr. Bennet was persuaded to be liberal with his purse.

Shopping for one’s daughters’ wedding trousseaus—the pinnacle of woman’s achievements as a mother, for years Mrs. Bennet had feared this day would never come. Her gaze flickered from Jane to Lizzy. Well done, girls.

Jane’s beauty and sweet personality catching Mr. Bingley was a certain success, she had no doubt. But what a sly girl Lizzy was. How smart of her to turn down Collins for a bigger fish. Ten thousand pounds a year and he the grandson of an earl, too. Mrs. Bennet straightened. Court dresses. Lizzy would need a court dress. She scribbled the item on her list and folded the paper before putting it in her reticule. If that coxcomb Sir William Lucas could be presented at court, for certain the wife of a grandson of an earl would merit a presentation.

“Must Kitty and I be subjected to this excursion, Mama?” Mary lifted her head from her book and intruded into Mrs. Bennet’s mental planning of the arrangement of the seven ostrich plumes on Lizzy’s headdress for her appearance at St. James’.

“Subjecting yourself?” Mrs. Bennet narrowed her eyes. However did she spawn such a graceless, bookish child? “Why did I not leave you back in Longbourn with your father. You consider it a chore to be in town, shopping?”

Barely lifting her pressed face from the window, Kitty said, “Mary may consider herself ill-used, Maman, but she does not speak for me. Wait until I write Lydia and tell her she missed out on shopping for clothes in Mayfair. Are we near Bond street?”

Mrs. Bennet frowned. However did she spawn such witless child? “Kitty, stop looking out of the window like you’re a common ware for the gentlemen.”

Kitty’s hand suddenly flapped. “Look, Lizzy, I believe that’s Mr. Darcy next to the iron post there, in front of that shop.”

Kitty did not get to finish, for her sister Lizzy had indecorously thrown herself across Mary to sweep aside the window’s curtains.

Mrs. Bennet’s mouth opened. Jane and Mrs. Gardiner both chuckled at Lizzy’s eagerness.

Just when Mrs. Bennet was about to pull her hoyden of a daughter back, Lizzy’s face fell. She drew back from the window. “That is not Mr. Darcy.”

Kitty said, “Are you sure? He has the same tall, proud look.”

Mrs. Gardiner glanced outside the carriage’s window before she determinedly drew the curtains closed. “I believe that is Mr. Beau Brummel—a man deemed by the ton as the greatest arbiter of fashion, wit, and address—whom Kitty has mistaken for Mr. Darcy.”

Mrs. Bennet laughed. “La! What a joke. Such a man and Kitty mistaken him for Mr. Darcy.”

“May I remind you, Maman,” Lizzy said with an edge in her voice, “that Mr. Darcy had the ultimate good taste to choose one of your daughters, a daughter whose expectations are non-existent, to be Mrs. Darcy?”

Speechless, Mrs. Bennet stared at her second eldest, whose eyes flashed impudently. However did she spawn such a headstrong, obstinate, contrary girl? Surely Lizzy must be aware of everyone’s true opinion: that Mr. Darcy, ten-thousand pounds and grandson of an earl or not, cannot hope to match Mr. Bingley, or, Mrs. Bennet’s favorite, dear Wickham—in fashion, wit, or address?

“I believe you misheard my mother, Lizzy.” Jane’s voice was its usual placating tone.

“I believe what my sister Bennet meant,” Mrs. Gardiner entered the conversation, “is that Mr. Darcy’s interests are of a more, steady, serious-minded, practical nature, which greatly benefit all those—friends, family, tenants—people who are dependent on him. As a responsible landed gentleman, his interests are not frivolous and trifling such as those of Mr. Brummel’s, whose chief concern in life is whether his snuff is sniff-worthy and his cravats starched stiff enough, if I may be so impertinent toward a friend of the prince.”

“Thank you, Aunt, I had no idea my betrothed has such a champion in you.” Amusement briefly replaced the flash of ire in Lizzy’s eyes. She then turned and met Mrs. Bennet’s eyes. “My apologies, Maman, for my…uh…misunderstanding. It is just that I do not care to hear Mr. Darcy being slighted.”

Mrs. Bennet leaned against the carriage side. Surprised. She knew Mr. Darcy, as strange as it seemed, must have been captivated by her daughter, else why would he have offered marriage, but could Lizzy truly have tender feelings for the dour and solemn Mr. Darcy? Mr. Darcy? Was her daughter making a love-match with Mr. Darcy, of all people?

Mary lowered her book. “It seems to me a useless business, this dashing about town amassing fripperies to prepare for life as a Missus, when one has already caught the Mister.”

Five pairs of eyes fixed on her. Jane exclaimed, “Mary!”

Lizzy laughed. “Ah, but, Mary, you forget that women do not dress for their husbands. We dress for other women. I certainly do not wish for Mr. Darcy’s female relations to think me more of a portionless country nobody than I already am.”

Though Lizzy’s tone was glib, Mrs. Bennet detected a note of nervousness in her normally indomitable daughter. Lizzy would not be nervous meeting anyone unless she cared to make a good impression. It must be a love-match. Much as Mrs. Bennet admitted Lizzy was never her favorite child, as a mother, she did not like to see her strong daughter unconfident.

Mrs. Gardiner leaned forward and teased, “Now, my dear Lizzy, was it not the liveliness of your mind which brought him up to scratch? Or did Kitty eavesdropped wrong?”

While Lizzy blushed and scolded her younger sister, and Jane and Mrs. Gardiner chuckling again, Mrs. Bennet ignored them and took out her list.

How could she forget? A riding habit for Lizzy after the wedding. La Belle Assemblee, The Lady’s Magazine, Le Beau Monde, the Repository, Mrs. Bennet had been diligently studying the fashion magazines used by the modistes and mantua-makers. Many fashionable brides these days wear riding habits as their traveling dresses on their wedding days. Though Lizzy was no horsewoman, she could use it as a carriage dress or a walking dress during her wedding trip.

Mrs. Bennet tapped the paper against her chin. A carmine or Devonshire brown woollen, styled in the same cut as Mr. Darcy’s great coat, would highlight Lizzy’s dark tresses, or a Bishop’s blue thick muslin, perhaps with a frilled collar on the habit shirt, which would frame the shape of her delicate face quite nicely?

Her daughter’s lively mind might have caught Mr. Darcy’s interest, but his female relations would not be impressed with a bluestocking young Mrs. Darcy.

A newly married woman adorned, embellished, and clothed in the right style of fripperies, expensive fripperies, that’s what would impress and silence any cattiness.

Portionless country nobody? Bah! After Mrs. Bennet was done with Lizzy’s wedding clothes, her daughter will hold her head high walking into St. James.

Court dress, July 1810, La Belle Assemble

I am not a fripperies girl and I hate to shop for clothes, so of course I challenged myself to write a vignette about shopping for wedding clothes. Though I had fun reading numerous books, blogs, studying fashion plates etc… on Regency fashion, I listened to the wise words of a talented Austen Author, Susan Mason-Milks—focus on the characters. Hope you enjoyed it. If you didn’t, blame it on Susan.

Nina Benneton

Nina Benneton

51 Responses to P&P200: The Longbourn Ladies Go Shopping for Wedding Clothes

  • Rita says:

    Well done, Nina!

    • Miss Rita,

      How kind of you to be the first to leave your calling card, and such kind words, too. Very well done yourself.

      The dear authoress has lost her head. I believe the fripperies have done her in. She asked me to reply in her stead.

      Mrs. B.

  • Well, I loved it, Nina! Especially the look into Mrs. Bennet’s mind and when she actually started to be more supportive of Elizabeth! Great job!

    • Dearest, most wise AA authoress,

      Most prodigiously glad the trip through my mind met with your approval. Would you be a dear and tell Mr. Bennet it is not as vacuous as he deemed?

      When you have five portionless daughters to marry off, you do not have time to sit around improving your mind with extensive reading!

      Yours, etc.

      Mrs. B

  • Chelsea says:

    This was really fun, thanks for sharing!

    • Dearest Miss Chelsea,

      Fun? Oh, no, you have gotten it all wrong. It is not fun to herd four daughters and a sister through the linen-drapers, the mantua-makers, the mercers, the milliners, the bootmakers, the glovers…

      Would you like to share my headache powder?

      Mrs. B.

  • Sophia Rose says:

    That was a nice moment. I enjoyed getting Mrs. Bennet’s point of view and seeing her start to realize what had been going on under her nose with Lizzy.

    Nice vignette, thanks!

    • My dearest Miss Sophia Rose,

      Exceedingly glad I suffered so you could have a nice moment. As to what has been going on under my nose? My dear gentle reader, it is best for us mothers if we do not know everything, do you not think?

      Think about it, had I known of the tendre developing between the two, I might have ruined it most awfully, unintentionally, of course.

      Your servant,

      Mrs. B

  • Ceri says:

    Ah, I enjoyed that, nice to see Mrs Bennet fretting for Lizzy.

    And “Did Kitty eavesdrop wrong?” LOL!

    • Dear Miss Ceri,

      Tsk! Tsk! You enjoy seeing a mother fret? I fret for all my children, some more than others.

      I know most of you gentle readers feel I favored Lydia most unfairly, but, think about it, with my motherly instincts, I KNEW she, more than any of my other daughters, would have a rough life. How could I not spoil and shower her with maternal love the early years of her life?

      As for Lizzy, now, there’s a girl who could take care of herself no matter what. And I was right.

      With five daughters, I must dole out my maternal fretting where they are most needed.

      Your obedient servant,

      Mrs. B

  • RosannaK says:

    Delightful; my head was spinning with all the various attire that must be worn depending upon one’s activity. How often an active lady must have to change her clothing daily? :)

    • Dearest Miss Rosanna,

      You are delightful yourself. As to your question, we change our clothes as often as we need to.

      Ahem… we do not bath quite as frequently as you do, and changing clothes make us feel refreshed.

      Yours, etc…

      Mrs. B

  • Karana says:

    I am definitely a fripperies girl and would of enjoyed the shopping trip if I could have. I love shopping for..anything really. The thrill of the hunt….I think I would have fit right in.

    • My darling Karana,

      Shall I talk to your mother and do a trade, Mary for you?

      The thrill of the hunt… ahem, some shops have more thrill than others. What? You did not know that except for the milliners and the modists, most shop assistants are men? Young men.

      Your most happy servant,

      Mrs. B

  • BeckyC says:

    Nina, well done! I especially love the part where Elizabeth throws Mrs Bennet’s words right back at her in defense of Mr Darcy! You hate clothes shopping? Now I see why you had Mary come along. lol

    • My dearest Miss Becky,

      I see we are lacking in some filial respect here. You enjoy it when my daughter is impudent toward her mother? Tsk! Tsk! That is a very 21st century sensibility, for which I am heartily glad I am not your mother.

      Mary? In every gathering there must be a droll, and that was Mary’s office, you understand.

      Your most displeased servant,

      Mrs. B

  • Danielle says:

    It is a wonder that with so much going on Mrs. Bennet did not have an attack of her nerves. :grin:

    Great post!

    • Dear Miss Danielle,

      Do I detect a note of condescension on your part there with the ‘attack of her nerves’? My dear, unless you are a mother in 1810 with five portionless, unmarried daughters and an always-in-his-study father, you know not what I suffer.

      I would wager you complain most heartily about your 2.2 children and your partner not helping with the dishes. Pshaw! If only that were my problems!

      Regards,

      Mrs. B

  • Stephanie L says:

    yeah…I would have been Mary all the way. LOL Why on earth do I need more clothes? I have the husband part taken care of! Love the way Lizzie stood up for Mr. Darcy. Love seeing her mama realize she may be wrong about Lizzie and Mr. Darcy’s relationship. Well Done!!

    • Dearest Miss Stephanie,

      Why do you need more clothes? My dear, even if you have a husband already, has no one in your century inform you that men are visual creatures? You do not want your husband to think his dearest, loveliest bride has turned into a slovenly shrew, do you?

      Get yourself some fripperies at once!

      Yours, etc..

      Mrs. B

  • Audra says:

    Eee, loved the Beau Brummel shout out — hilarious! The illustrations were fabu, too — I’m not much for shopping myself but I do enjoy admiring!

  • Never read a fiction of PP before. Great. You did it very well.

    • Dearest gentle reader,

      How could you improve your mind extensively if you do not read fiction of P & P? How could you hope to catch your own Mr. Darcy or Mr. Wentworth or a Jane Austen hero if you do not partake in such past-time?

      Put down that copy of 50 Shades, please, and pick up any of our books… May I recommend ‘Compulsively Mr. Darcy?’ A modern, irreverent retelling?

      Your humble servant,

      Mrs. B

      • Elisama Rodrigues says:

        I hate 50 shades. I have a lot of books being read now, but unhappily I can’t afford new books now.

  • Janet T says:

    It was delightful! The dialogue was fun and Mrs. Bennet was true to herself! I loved the insertion of Mr. Beau Brummel. Nice to see him mentioned here!

    I’m not a big shopper either!

    • Dearest Miss Janet,

      How kind of you! Yes, unlike Miss Bingley, I am always true to myself. Did you not think it quite admirable of me not to be impressed by Mr. Darcy at Meryton, despite his ten thousand pounds? I do not know why readers do not see that their beloved Elizabeth is just like me!

      Most sincerely yours,

      Mrs. B

  • Monica P says:

    Great job Nina! I’m glad Lizzy and Mrs G came to Darcy’s defense, and that Mrs B seems to be understanding Lizzy a bit better. Or at least wants her to look the part of the glamorous Mrs Darcy. True to form though, she still thinks Darcy comes up short to Wickham and Bingley :/ I’d love to see a Mrs B POV where she finds out exactly how much of a love-match it is.

    I’m not much of a fripperies girl or a shopper but I might be if I had some more “pin-money”!

    • Dearest, dearest Miss Monica,

      Of course Mr. Darcy came up short when compared to Mr. Bingley and dear Wicky. During my time, you see, appearance is everything. And you must admit Mr. Darcy did not appear with advantage in that regard most of the book.

      As for love match, yes, I am glad it is a love match. Although, my marriage with Mr. Bennet was a love match. Oh dear, now I’m concerned for my daughter. Mr. Darcy likely has a large library/study and fifty more times the books that Mr. Bennet has.

      May you marry a rich man and have Blenheim worth of pin-money! (Although, it did nothing for Winston Churchill’s uncle!)

      Yours obediently,

      Mrs. B

  • Lisa S says:

    That was a lot of fun. Thank you for sharing. It always makes me laugh to think of how often these women had to change in a day in order to wear the appropriate clothing for each activity. And I had never heard the term maman before for mama.

    • Dear, dearest Miss Lisa S,

      Oh, dear, you have caught our dear authoress out. She was being absentminded with the Mama/Maman. Must be the influence of those awful French nuns.

      We change our clothes frequently because our clothes are pretty and feminine and they are not sweats or track suits, as you ladies probably are wearing right now reading this.

      Your most cheeky servant,

      Mrs. B

  • Shaunn says:

    Hello, I like the way you have organised your information on your website, Do you find the fashion industry changing much. Thanks for the great information and informative posts.

  • Kelli H. says:

    Great post, Nina! That was very fun to read!!

    • Dear Miss Kelli,

      Most appreciative of your kind words. Be careful you do not have too much fun. Look what happened to dear Lydia…too much fun.

      Regards,

      Mrs. B

  • Kim Withey says:

    I would never make it in high society. I prefer jeans and sweaters.

  • SuzeJA says:

    Enjoyed it! Thanks

    • Dear Ms. SuzeJA,

      Thank you for calling. Since you enjoyed it, please call again, and again and again. Bring your friends, especially your rich friends who like to read.

      Yours, etc.

      Mrs. B

  • Carole says:

    Well done. Well done indeed! It was nice to have Mrs. Bennett’s POV but then shopping for clothes would be just her thing…no lace was mentioned though…lol

    • Dear, dear Miss Carole,

      Lace? Do I detect a note of derision toward lace here? My dear, high society women have to have at least 7 ostrich plumes on their court headdresses, and you readers make fun and begrudge me my lace?

      Your servant,

      Mrs. B

  • As another non-shopper, I still found this fun to read. Loved Mrs. Bennet’s view of Mr. Darcy’s ‘faults.’

    • Dear Miss Reynolds,

      I’m heartily glad you are a non-shopper. As an authoress, the only shopping you are allowed is within the pages of La Belle Assemblee.

      Do not get me start on Mr. Darcy’s many faults. That may be another post..

      Your humble servant,

      Mrs. B

  • Kat says:

    I like the glimpse over “ordinary life” that a carriage ride with everyone gives. Also how defensive E is of D. That’s what love does to you!
    Thanks, Kat

    • Dearest Miss Kat,

      Our lives are not ordinary, my dear. We have an iconic life, and for that we heartily blame Andrew Davies and Joe Wright.

      Your most tired servant,

      Mrs. B

  • Patricia Finnegan says:

    I love this! I could not stop laughing

    • Dearest, dearest Miss Finnegan,

      And we love you. We assume you are laughing with us over the silliness of Beau Brummel, Lizzy’s moon-calfing over Mr. Darcy, and NOT at us?

      Your most grateful servant,

      Mrs. B

  • This was delightful chaos as any shopping excursion where Mrs. Bennet is involved should be.

  • Michelle Fidler says:

    The comments by Mrs. B. are funny! I just found out what a Spencer jacket was today. I thought short jackets were a more modern invention (like shrugs). I prefer my jackets to be longer, but then again I have a stomach. In the newspaper there was an article and it said they were going to be sewing the Spencers and they were looking for people to join the group. There was a picture of Jennifer Ehle wearing a Spencer.

    The mention of Beau Brummell reminds me of the mysteries featuring him by Rosemary Stevens. I love mysteries.

  • PJ Friel says:

    While I quite enjoyed this little jaunt with Mrs. B and the other ladies, I find myself sympathizing with poor Mary. My sister used to bribe me to go on shopping trips with her, but I would have much rather been curled up with a book. What was dear Mary reading? ;)

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