Guest Post: Barbara Tiller Cole and Holiday Traditions
As part of our Austen Authors holiday celebration, we’re delighted to welcome Barbara Tiller Cole, the author of Christmas tale Fitzwilliam Ebenezer Darcy as our guest. As Tiny Tim would have said, “God bless us, every one!”
Elizabeth Darcy and Barbara Tiller Cole Discuss their Favorite Holiday Traditions

(First of all, I want to thank Austen Authors and Abigail Reynolds for the invitation to share this guest post. Merry Christmas to you all!)
Elizabeth Darcy: Ms. Tiller Cole, I am thrilled to have this opportunity to visit with you here in the future. However, I am still not sure how I happened to arrive here!
Barbara Tiller Cole: I am not sure how you came to be here either, Mrs. Darcy, but am delighted that you have found your way to my home for a visit. Please call me Barbara. I’d love to hear about your family’s favorite Christmas traditions. I have studied some of the English traditions myself, but would like to know more directly from you.
Elizabeth Darcy: Barbara, you must call me Elizabeth. I would be happy to discuss this with you. I love decorating the house with fresh greenery from our evergreens, hanging the mistletoe balls,.. But it never feels like Christmas until I first see Fitzwilliam in his shirt shelves—uhhh—leading the tenants as they bring in the Yule log. The only thing better would be if his shirt was wet, but that is not possible during the Holiday season. Oh my, did I say that out loud
Barbara Tiller Cole: (laughs) Yes, you did, Elizabeth. I can imagine that could be awe-inspiring. I actually participated in a Yule log ceremony when I was in graduate school, but it was just a one-night event. I believe that you burn the Yule log for twelve days—from Christmas to January sixth, which is Epiphany. Am I correct?
Elizabeth Darcy: Yes, we do burn it for twelve nights in a row. It is a tradition to keep a piece of wood from the prior year’s Yule log to light this year’s log. Fitzwilliam begins scouting the perimeter of Pemberley for the largest tree, with the hardest wood in the summer each year. He normally chooses two or three that might suffice and his steward notes them as well. Then when the Holiday season is upon us, they go and see which is in the best condition and easiest to cut down. It is a long process, as the tree is usually found in a remote part of the property. It takes carts and wagons and horses, as well as many servants and tenants to bring the Yule log into the blue parlour in the main house.
Barbara Tiller Cole: So you burn it each evening during those twelve nights?
Elizabeth Darcy: Yes, it is lighted each night for twelve successive nights, but the first night—Christmas Eve—is the most important. There is a traditional D’arcy family song written long ago in France that is sung as the log is brought into the parlour. The lighting ceremony includes a reading from the family history and a poem we all recite as the prior year’s remains lights this year’s log. It is believed to be bad luck if the log does not catch fire on the first attempt, so my Fitzwilliam makes sure to douse it with some candle oil. I told him that was cheating, but he insists. His grandfather told him once that it had been thus for as long as he could remember and should continue! This Darcy family tradition is ONE thing I would never try and change about my beloved husband. (laughter)
Barbara Tiller Cole: That is delightful. I have read about some of the parlour games that were played in your era around the holidays. One of them particularly intrigues me. Do you play Snap-dragon?
Elizabeth Darcy: We only played it once. It was on our second Christmas together. I had heard about it, and wanted to try it. Snap-dragon is best played on Christmas Eve, and I wanted to surprise Fitzwilliam and play it in our chambers after we left the rest of the party. I took his best brandy and had Mrs. Reynolds heat it and place it in a wide shallow bowl. She put the raisins in the bowl ahead of time for me, but I could tell she was not so sure that I should be trying this particular game. I extinguished all but one candle and as Fitzwilliam came into the chamber, I was giggling as I lit the brandy. There was an eerie effect of blue flames playing across the liquor. I told him that the aim was to pluck raisins out of the burning brandy and eat them. We played and laughed, but he dropped one of them into his lap. Well, it was too hot and it landed… Well, let us just say that he was hoping around in pain for quite awhile after that accident. He has forbidden another attempt if you understand. (Giggles) Please tell me about one of your favorite holiday memories, Barbara.
Barbara Tiller Cole: When I was seventeen I won the part of the Virgin Mary in the Stone Mountain Park Nativity Festival. Each evening the events of the nativity were played out on the walk-up side of the mountain. We were in appropriate costumes for the period. When the babe was born each night, the heavenly hosts, who were a choir from the Atlanta area, would sing carols. It was wonderful. But one night, the donkey that I rode up the side of the mountain was feeling a bit, should we say, disagreeable and took off with me on his back. I was riding sidesaddle with a fake pregnant belly at the time and held on to his mane for dear life. A gallant knight finally caught up with us. Made me wonder if the donkey was really just a stubborn mule, but we were able to go ahead with the rest of the show!
Elizabeth Darcy: Oh my! What a memory!
Barbara Tiller Cole: Yes, it was. In fact it was such a widely attended event, that I was on the cover of many newspapers around the world, including the London Daily News that Christmas as the Virgin Mary.
Elizabeth Darcy: Do you still have any of the newspapers, Barbara?
Barbara Tiller Cole: No, I can’t seem to find them. But I do have a copy of the picture.
Elizabeth Darcy: How delightful! I so enjoy our talks together and hope we can talk more about our traditions on a future visit! May your story continue to do well! Fitzwilliam and I love it. Thank you for the signed first edition copy of Fitzwilliam Ebenezer Darcy for the Pemberley library!
Barbara Tiller Cole: You are very welcome. Merry Christmas to you and Mr. Darcy! I look forward to speaking with you again soon, Elizabeth!
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Pride and Prejudice meets A Christmas Carol
A Jane Austen/Charles Dickens crossover story, Fitzwilliam Ebenezer Darcy takes the best of both classics and spins them into a delightful Holiday treat! F.E. Darcy has fallen into pitiful self-loathing and sorrowful angst-ridden despair; all of this due to his belief that he has lost forever the chance to marry the only woman he has ever loved—Elizabeth Bennet. Seeing her son in such a state, the Ghost of Anne Darcy reaches out to him; informing him that three ghosts would visit him and give him hope. Will these Spirits provide him with the courage to try again to win the esteem of his one true soul mate? Barbara Tiller Cole, an Atlanta native and the writer of the popular book White Lies and Other Half Truths, presents this family friendly classic—a delightful combination of the best of her two favorite authors, Jane Austen and Charles Dickens. Barbara credits her parents with fostering a love for both of these authors. Each Christmas, Barbara’s father would sit and read Dickens’ classic A Christmas Carol to the family. Her mother consistently challenged her to improve her mind by extensive reading, Jane Austen style. This book is dedicated to the memory of Cliff and Jeanne and the season they loved the best.
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It is quite an accomplishment to have your book at the Pemberley Libraty, Barbara! My congratulations and next time give Elizabeth and Fitzwilliam my regars!!!!
Rita:
I hope that I get a chance to talk with Elizabeth Darcy again, and would LOVE it if Fitzwilliam could accompany her next time. It was creative of me to figure out how to get a copy of my book into their library.
Have a very Merry Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole
That game, Snapdragon, sounds like something you might try AFTER having a nip or two.
Thanks, Barbara, for the interesting interview, and the story about your wild ride!
Susan:
I have always thought that about Snap-Dragon as well. As Mrs. Darcy told me, this was after the end of their evening festivities. So it is quite likely that they were not completely sober when they started playing the game! LOL.. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Loved the interview, the donkey ride story, and the photo! What fun! Congrats on finding a way into the library at Pemberley
Having too many nips before Snapdragon doesn’t sound like a good idea – might get a little more than singed. We certainly wouldn’t want that!
Wendi:
So glad that you enjoyed the interview! The donkey story is a TRUE one! I have other fun Christmas memories, but this one was the funniest I could think of when I was working on this!
And no, too many nips before Snap-dragon could definitely cause permanent injury to vital parts!
I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole
I love that story about Mary and the donkey. And that was a cute character interview- the part about Darcy going for the sure thing and dowsing the yule log- haha!
You’re book sounds fab combining two such great works.
Thanks for the post!
Sophia Rose:
I am so glad that you liked the post! As far as the donkey story goes, it is completely true! I do not have a picture of the wild ride however. The ride was UP the side of Stone Mountain in the dark. For any of you that do not know what Stone Mountain is, it is the largest granite mountain in the world and is just outside of Atlanta, Georgia. As for Fitzwilliam’s ‘cheating’–Elizabeth told me that he swore his grandfather told him to do it!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Barbara! You’re famous for a wild donkey ride! How cool is that! Some people have all the luck and interesting life.
I had no idea the yule log process was so involved. Not any dropped branch would do, eh?
Elizabeth Darcy and you are getting to be good chums.
Tell her the mother in me think it was foolish to play snapdragons near the family’s jewels.
Nina:
It is not just everyone that has a story like mine to tell at Christmas time! I pride myself on the ability to share the little delicacies that delight the readers at Christmas.
As for the Darcy family jewels…well…OBVIOUSLY Snap-Dragon has not returned to the Darcy bedchamber due to just such instruction as you would have given as a mother to Fitzwilliam! However, from what Elizabeth led me to believe it was Darcy himself that did the instructing..
As for my friendship with Elizabeth, I have been thrilled to have had so many opportunities to get to know her. I am now trying to determine if there is a way for me to visit HER instead of vice versa!
Happy Christmas my friend!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Barbara, I just love your interviews with Elizabeth! This was quite enjoyable! Thank you! I hope you & your family have a wonderful Christmas season!
BTW, how fun that you were Mary at Stone Mountain! That is one place we enjoy!
Jakki:
I am so glad that you have enjoyed my interviews with Elizabeth. I hope that you have a wonderful Christmas season as well.
I actually went to Stone Mountain High School, Jakki. So it was not a big stretch for me to participate! I wish that they still had it, but they don’t. The music in the background was from the Carillon which I once got to play. It looks like an organ, but each key on the keyboard rings a bell. The Carillon is still at Stone Mountain and they do have concerts from time to time. The lights, sets and costumes were all professional. It was a wonderful holiday tradition–but being a state park they are no longer allowed to do this event.
I have had many hours of fun at Stone Mountain. Glad that you enjoy it to. Hope we get to meet somewhere along the line!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Hi Barbara. As they say in the newspaper business, this was a real “get.” Very clever and fun. Have a wonderful holiday and congratulations on the release of Ebenezer Darcy.
Mary:
Thank you so much for you kind words! I am so honored to be guest posting with you here at Austen Authors today! I recently re-read “Mr. Darcy’s Bite” and enjoyed it more the second time around.
Speaking of crossovers, I have a picture of us at Chino Bandido’s–a Chinese Mexican restaurant! That was a fun lunch! Hope to see you again when I get out your way.
Barbara Tiller Cole
This was so much fun! Thank you. Your stories always make me smile.
Maria:
Thank you so much my friend. Hope you are enjoying your holiday with your family!
Barbara Tiller Cole
I loved the story of your donkey ride! Thanks for sharing your conversation with Mrs. Darcy.
Abigail:
Thank YOU so much for your part in allowing me to do this guest post here at Austen Authors. I am happy that you enjoyed the story of the donkey ride!
Have a wonderful Holiday. Merry Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole
I love the part about Darcy putting candle oil on the Yule log! And I’ve enjoyed your chats with Mrs Darcy. If you figure out how to travel to visit her, do pass on the secret!
Merry Christmas!
Monica:
I thank YOU for being so loyal in finding me at each stop along my blog tour! I am happy that you enjoyed the chats with Mrs. Darcy. If I can figure out how to visit HER, I will certainly let you know! Have a very Merry Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Barbara, lovely to have you here at Austen Authors. Had a giggle over the post.
I agree with Elizabeth, though. I think Darcy was cheating!
Monica:
It is lovely to be here WITH you here at Austen Authors. Glad I was able to give you a giggle!
And yes, Darcy was cheating. But then he was following in a long line of Darcy men that ‘cheated’ in order not to cause the family bad luck! The Darcy Pride and all you understand!
Merry Christmas! Barbara Tiller Cole
Thanks for joining us, Barb. I love reading about Christmas traditions. They are so varied and always fun. I was so enamored by the Snapdragon fun that I had to write that into my novella! Sounds too risky to me, but a mischievous youth was up for it. LOL!
Good luck on your Christmas story. And Merry Christmas to you! Sharon
Sharon:
Thanks so much! I have read about Snap-dragon in a couple different JA variations, but found I had to look it up and study it to find out if it were actually a parlor game of the period. It does sound a bit too risky to me as well!
Thanks for your best wishes. I look forward to reading your ‘Miss Darcy Falls in Love’ soon! Much success to you as well! Have a wonderful holiday!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Barbara, this was such a wonderful treat!I thoroughly enjoyed your interview with Elizabeth, and learning about such great traditions – I’d never even heard of snapdragon before!
I hope you have a magical Christmas and a healthy and prosperous New Year.
Best,
Susan
Susan:
I am so happy that you enjoyed it! Glad that I was able to ‘educate’ you on a more risky Regency game!
Hope that you and your family are well!
Have a wonderful, magical Christmas yourself! When are we going to read something new from you, Susan? Hope it is not too long!
Barbara Tiller Cole
Barbara, this was such a delightful interview! Thank you. I laughed aloud at the part when Elizabeth was talking about her husband’s “wet shirt”
, and I loved learning about the Snap-dragon game (!!) and more about Yule logs, too.
Marilyn: I am SO glad that you enjoyed the ‘interview’. I am a Colin girl, what can I say! If my muse can find a way to work his wet shirt into things…it just happens without my intentional plan for it to happen..LOL.
I am glad you enjoyed learning aout Snap-dragon and more about Yule logs as well! I hope you have a very Merry Christmas!
Barbara Tiller Cole