“For the Love of Three Men” with Katharine Ashe, Guest Blogger

For the Love of Three Men

My love affair with the Regency era commenced with a journey that I can sum up in three words:

Knightley. Darcy. Wentworth.

In that order.

Pray, allow me to explain.

When I was a girl I read Emma. Everything familiar was there to draw me in: small town, father-daughter affection, social machinations, loyalty, misunderstandings, vanity, good intentions, humor, matchmaking, modest misbehavior, chagrin, secret love and profound friendship. Everything I read in that story was things I imagined I already understood, yet they were set in a world of sublime elegance. And the speech delighted me — the whimsical tones, the clever phrasing, the economy of words amid a richness of syntax.

But I have a core of romantic love in my deepest soul. My devotion to early nineteenth-century England truly began with Mr. Knightley. Oh, Mr. Knightley! The first grown man I fell in love with. How couldn’t I? He charmed. He cared. He was fabulously rich and lived next door. He traveled to London at a moment’s notice. He was already related through a beloved sister! (I have four sisters; these bonds of affection I do not take lightly.) But his love for a woman did not make him afraid to teach, to chastise, and most importantly to sacrifice. Dreamy sigh. I had discovered the perfect gentleman!

Then I met Mr. Darcy.

Pride and Prejudice introduced me to an England I’d only glimpsed before — to grand estates and high society, to balls and wicked sisters, to spectacular set-downs and scandalous seduction, and above all to passion. The passion of wit and humor and attraction and desire. And, naturally, the passion of pride.

This last probably propelled my conversion to the era. You see, in my secret identity I am a professor of medieval history. In the Middle Ages, pride was considered the most heinous sin for very good reason. It aroused passion that unbridled human emotion far more dangerous than any other Deadly Sin like greed or anger or even lust. Pride could too lead a man to passion, and human passion once unchained was nearly impossible to check. One shudders to imagine humanity’s downfall if ruled by such a vice! (And trust me, lots and lots of medieval commentators shuddered when imagining it, which they did with prurient relish, I might add.)

But Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennett taught my young heart something very important about passion. They taught me that passion needn’t be destroyed or even bridled. Rather, when wed to intellect and compassion, passion could make a good man into a better man, and a clever girl into a wise woman.

And so my affair with English society during Austen’s era continued along its way, inspired by the joyful majesty of Darcy’s humbling love for his lady.

Until Captain Frederick Wentworth sailed into my sights.

Then the game rules changed. Dramatically.

Here was passion beyond what I had seen before. Here was heartbreak and loneliness and buried longings and a quiet devastation of years. Here was pain born of loving too much and trusting in that love too little. Here was a man who had gone into the world believing himself unloved who himself had never ceased loving, despite his efforts to do precisely that. And here was a man who made himself a hero not only to one woman, one family, one community, but to all of Britain.

My adoration of Britain in the early nineteenth century has everything to do with the mature love that Wentworth and Anne come to after their nine years of separation. Wentworth is a man of the wide world, Anne a woman of local society. Together, combined, they became to me what England and its empire were during this era — a kingdom seeking to rule the world and succeeding at it, winning riches across the globe that fueled the decadence of high society, all the while remaining a land of country villages and parish churches, grouse hunting and humble farmers, tea taken with old friends and the small-world phenomenon of bumping into close acquaintances while far from home.

Captain Wentworth’s nine-year sojourn upon the high seas sent me beyond the British Isles into the world of British Empire, an exciting, rich world of wonders I hadn’t dreamed before. But after amassing his fortune and helping to win the war for England, Wentworth went home — to his Anne — whether he knew all along that he would, or not.

Admission: my novella, A LADY’S WISH, is an offering of thanks to Jane Austen for her Persuasion. First, Persuasion changed my notions of what love could be. And second, in falling in love with Frederick Wentworth, at once I fell in love with seafaring heroes and Britain’s power upon the sea in the early nineteenth century.

So now I write both — stories set in the Regency era, with all the comforts of villages and farms and small-town assembly room balls, as well as all the adventure of heroes who’ve traveled across oceans and continents seeking their fortunes and, above all, seeking the women that are daring and clever enough to steal their hearts.

It’s a love affair for a lifetime.

Katharine Ashe

Katharine Ashe writes stunningly sensual, adventure-packed Regency historical romances for Avon Romance, which reviewers have called “page-turners” and “keepers.” Her CAPTURED BY A ROGUE LORD, featuring a rakish earl who moonlights as a pirate with a Robin Hood complex, is nominated for “Best Romantic Adventure” in the Reviewers’ Choice Best Book Awards. On February 28, her WHEN A SCOT LOVES A LADY hits bookshelves everywhere!!!

 

One lucky visitor will receive an autographed copy of Katharine’s CAPTURED BY A ROGUE LORD. Leave a comment below or earn extra opportunities to win by making connections on social media through Rafflecopter. The giveaway will run through Thursday, March 1. The winner will be announced on March 2 along with the regular February giveaway winners. 

Regina Jeffers

Regina Jeffers writes Austen-inspired sequels and mysteries, as well as Regency and contemporary romance.

57 Responses to “For the Love of Three Men” with Katharine Ashe, Guest Blogger

  • Susan Kaye says:

    Welcome, Kathrine. I agree about Wentworth. Coming to Austen later in life, it was Persuasion that resonated for me. In researching my novels–Wentworth’s side of things–I came to love guys who came to live in the Wooden World and explore life.And love at times.

    Thanks again for stopping by.

    • Thanks for having me here today, Susan! I’m particularly fond of men of the sea. Most of the heroes of my books are sailors! There’s something about a man who can command the most powerful force of nature on earth… Gives me happy shivers. :)

  • Thanks for a wonderful post, Katharine! Your description of your personal evolving appreciation of England and the three different Austen men is a great new way of thinking and I appreciate the opportunity to view things through this lens! :-)

    • Hi, Vera. Thanks for welcoming me today! I’m so glad to be here with you ladies and gentleman. :) We all have our unique Austen histories and experiences. I think that’s what makes her books so wonderful — that she has touched so many people in so many different ways because of the beauty and power and brilliance of her work.

  • Sophia Rose says:

    Well you picked my favorite Austen hero as one of yours. I adore Frederick Wentworth for many of the same reasons. What an awesome legacy Jane Austen has inspiring so many authors like yourself.

    Thanks for the post! Fun to see who people like and why.

  • I am definitely a Darcy fan, but Wentworth plays a close second. Knightley has little appeal for me, but I’m fond of Colonel Brandon (especially as seen in the Emma Thompson version of the story line) and Henry Tilney.

    • Hi, Regina. Thank you for inviting me to be with you today! I’m so happy to be here! Oh, yes, Brandon is wonderful! I haven’t read S&S in such a long time, I think it’s time I do so again. Now, I can’t believe I’m admitting this in present company, but despite the fact that Northanger Abbey was at one time my favorite Austen novel, I still haven’t seen any film version of it. Must rectify that soon!

  • Laura Hile says:

    Thank you for sharing your love for these three Austen men. I love them too! :)

  • Lisa says:

    Hi Katharine! :)
    I LOVE LOVE LOVE this post! You have definitely touched on a topic near and dear to my heart.

    I am going to have to be so typical and say that Darcy is my favorite Austen hero. What can I say? P&P was the very first time I was ever exposed to Austen, and I was never the same after watching Colin Firth portray the role of a lifetime. And how can you not love a hero who sucks up his pride, and makes the big gesture in order to improve himself in the eyes of the woman he loves? And not even wanting credit for it??!! Come on now!

    But I have to say Mr. Knightly comes a very close second. Blunt and harsh he may be at times, but he proves himself to truly care about Emma by telling her the truth and what she needs to hear as opposed to what she wants to hear, and showing her the importance thinking about the consequences of her actions before acting. Your heart goes out to him after he comes back from London, convinced he’s lost the woman he’s loved for years, and determined to be stoic and put on a brave face, only to find out his love is more than returned. ::Happysigh::

    • Lisa says:

      I forgot to add, no need to enter me in the giveaway-I already have a copy of the fantastic Captured By a Rogue Lord. :)

    • Oh, Lisa, you’ve said it so well! I do love Darcy — how can’t I?! And because Knightley was my “first”, he’ll always hold a special place in my heart. Really, it’s not fair to have to pick between them. Austen was a master at creating real men with conflicts and challenges whose honor wins through every time. Thanks for commenting today!

  • Cindy Holub says:

    Great post! Mr. Darcy was my first Austen Hero. There was one thing I disliked about her writing style, the mysterious way of portraying feelings. Would love to win this!

    • Hi, Cindy! I think you’re right. Many romance authors now express their characters’ emotions really explicitly. Austen was much sparer in this, using suggestion, situation and inference to do a lot of that job. It’s different from what we’re used to in much of today’s romantic fiction! Thanks for commenting. :)

  • Melody May says:

    I first read Pride and Prejudice in high school and fell in love with Mr. Darcy. Then I read Emma and loved Knightly. I also read Northanger Abbey and love Henry Tilney. I loved all three of those books.

    • Hi, Melody! Isn’t it wonderful to know that when you pick up a certain author’s book you’re going to love it? Austen’s heroes truly are fabulously satisfying! Thanks for commenting. :)

  • Capt. Wentworth is beyond a doubt my favorite Austen hero. I saw the movie “Persuasion” (1995 version) at a very low time in my life, and it had a huge impact on me. Seeing how Anne and Wentworth found each other after so many years and despite all the people working against them was incredibly inspiring. In fact, my personal subtitle for Persuasion is “Don’t Let the B***ds Get You Down.” Not very elegant, I know, but so true! I knew it was time to live my own life and I have profited by that ever since. Thanks for the wonderful blog post!

    • Jennifer, I’m so happy to learn this about you! I liked you already, of course, but this just solidifies that all the more. ;) And isn’t it wonderful how just the right story at the right time can give us hope and courage to get through the tough stuff? Yay that PERSUASION found you when you needed it most! :)

  • Betty Hamilton says:

    I have to admit that i have never read An Austen book! I have however watched several movies based on Jane Austen’s novels. The Pride and Prejudice is my favorite… particularly the one with Colin Firth. Mr Darcy is my favorist character.

    • Hi, Betty! It’s lovely to see you here. Okay… I need a promise from you to read at least one Jane Austen novel before 2012 is out. What do you think? Will you do it??? :) ))

  • Okay, the guy jumps in. My three best heroes are:

    Wentworth – Austen’s self-made man. Her homage to her naval brothers and all the military heroes of the Georgian Wars. She showed that a man can be constant, even as he battles his resentment and jealousy.

    Darcy – Austen’s über-male. What every Regency gentleman ought to be. Stiff, proud, and reserved on the outside. Generous, honorable, and dynamic on the inside. An incredibly decent man, he lacks only a bit of polishing to shine as brightly in public as he does in private. What real woman wouldn’t want him?

    BRANDON – Austen’s other outstanding officer. Heart-broken, he goes overseas to war, betrayed by his relations. When he returns home to an inheritance he did not expect, he focuses on helping his dying lost love, also a victim of Brandon’s cruel brother and father, now fallen as low as a woman in Regency England can fall. He takes her illegitimate child as his ward, something very few of his contemporaries would do. He knows even his friends will mistake is reasons, but he cares not. When Willoughby cruelly uses and abandons the girl, Brandon is relentless. Willoughby is fortunate to survive. Yet, he is kind enough and patient enough to capture even Marianne’s overly-romantic heart. No man deserves his happy ending more than he.

    I’m of two minds about Knightley. I agree with everything you’ve said about him. Still, the age difference, augmented by close contact throughout the years, gives me pause. It affects me far more than the Brandon/Marianne pairing. I agree that only Emma will do for Knightley, and vice versa, but…

    I’ve written a modern take about it in my unpublished CRESCENT CITY. Maybe one day it will see the light of day.

    Very interesting post!

    • Hi, Jack. Thanks for your terrific blog here with the ladies. I love it that you’ve all banded together to create such a wonderful Austen presence in the blogosphere!

      I’m in thorough agreement with you about these heroes. My love for Knightley was a girl’s. I’m rather more inclined toward Brandon as an adult now, and I still adore Darcy. But above all Frederick Wentworth will always command my admiration — dare I say, my heart!

  • Welcome, Katherine! Bravo to what you said about Darcy and Wentworth who are my great loves. I will definitely check out “A Lady’s Wish.” Thanks for joining us today.

  • Sharon Lathan says:

    I love all the Austen heroes for different reasons. She crafted each of them with unique traits. Of course Darcy is my favorite too, but largely that is because I knew him first. I do adore Wentworth with Brandon and Tilney running close behind.

    Your insights, Katharine, are wonderful. Like Vera I am always learning something new by seeing these characters through another person’s lens.

    Thank you SO much for joining us on Austen Authors for our wonderful Regency Romance month. Your blog is an amazing cap to what has been an amazing month with our guests.

  • Hi Katharine, time is zipping away till Tuesday! : )
    Mr. Knightley is my absolute favorite Austen man. I love the idea of a spouse being your sincerest best friend.
    My first Austen read was Mansfield Park. I read it in an English course my freshman year in college and fell in love with Miss Jane’s work. By the time I finished my degree in English, I had read them all and written two papers on her works. So much more interesting than Samuel Beckett’s work. UGH!

  • Hi, Amy!

    “I love the idea of a spouse being your sincerest best friend.” Yes yes! Wonderful, isn’t it?!

    How wonderful that you discovered Austen in a class! Yay Amy’s professor! You know, I had a similiar experience you had with Beckett with a novel we read for my 19th-Century English Fiction course my senior year in college. One of James Joyce’s novels. I’m so sorry if there are James Joyce fans here. At that time, I was *not* one, and I kept wishing and dreaming we’d read Austen instead! :} But I *was* glad to read Mary Shelley’s FRANKENSTEIN in that class. It remains one of my favorite novels of all time.

  • I LOVED this post! It was beautifully written and really wonderful to read. I must admit, Mr. Knightley is still my favorite, but Jane Austen makes it oh so very diffucult to choose… :)

    Thank you so much for guest posting on Austen Authors!

  • Kelli says:

    Lovely post! I share your affinity for England, Austen, and rogues! I look forward to experiencing your books.

  • Welcome, Katharine, to Austen Authors. I agree with everything you wrote. I think most of us have been on a similar journey.

  • AmyFlo says:

    Loved reading your thoughts about Austen’s most passionate (and my favorite) hero: Captain Wentworth. He certainly is a force of nature, isn’t he? While I prefer the quieter Edward Ferrars-types in real life, there is something about a man who feels so strongly. Even his “negative” actions earlier in the book are perfectly in line with his intense emotions. Only a man who feels so deeply it hurts could pen such a letter.

    And there is, as you say, something about a sea captain, especially when he’s played by Ciaran Hinds. /sigh/

    • AmyFlo, I’m entirely with you on the Ciaran Hinds page. I remember so well seeing that version for the first time and thinking, “Hinds is perfect perfect perfect for this.” I love that film for many reasons, but those fleeting moments when he’s writing the letter, then passing it to her, are the most breathtaking. The letter itself is among my favorites of all letters in fiction.

  • C. Allyn Pierson says:

    Welcome Katharine! I look forward to trying one of your books and I’m delighted you could visit Austen Authors today!

  • Sue P. says:

    Loved the three you talked about. My order: Darcy, Wentworth, Knightly. But what about the Colonel in Sense and Sensibility? Steadfast, helpful and loving til the end. Anyways, hard to argue with the Heroes of any of Austen’s.

    • You’re so right, Sue. Why choose? LOL! I do love Colonel Brandon. He’s dreamy — so incredibly honorable. I think when I first read S&S I was far too young to fall out of love with Willoughby to appreciate Brandon sufficiently. Heck, I was young (and naive) enough to actually fall in love with Willoughby in the first place. I suppose it just took me a bit longer to learn wisdom than it took Marianne. ;)

  • Monica P says:

    I love the way you described these three worthy gentlemen! Darcy is my favorite, though I admit I have not engrossed myself as much in the other novels as I have P&P. Actually, I have yet to read or watch a film version of Emma, but I promise I will.

    I do love that Wentworth, as Jack said, is a self-made man, and I love Colonel Brandon as well.

  • Kim Withey says:

    Thanks so much for sharing your true loves with us. I do agree with your choices although I’ve always been a bit critical of Anne. I believe Wentworth deserves better. Of course you can always argue that Anne did in the end grow into a strong heroine. Anyway thanks. I look forward to reading your books.

    • Hi, Kim. You’ve caught me out! In my first few readings of Persuasion I was a little disappointed in Anne, too, and had much the same “She doesn’t deserve him” thoughts as you. But I grew to appreciate her better, and perhaps to understand her better as I got older. Not quite sure why, but I do admire her more now.

  • Mary M says:

    Hello Katharine!
    “Emma,” is the first book I recommend to teens when they ask about Jane Austen. Perhaps, it is because I adored Mr. Knightley, and there is so much humor in this story. I can’t tell you how many times they would return to the store (former Borders bookseller) and tell me how much they enjoyed the book. This would always be followed by another of Austen’s work…usually “Pride & Prejudice.” :smile:

  • Carole says:

    Beautifully written post Katharine. I would have to say my favourite is Mr. Darcy but Captain Wentworth is a close second…Colonel Brandon is not far behind either.

    • Thanks, Carol. :) I do love Brandon much more now than I did as a young woman. Back then I think the May/December quality of that romance made me a little uncomfortable. Now firmly into middle age, however, I’m quite comfy with it. :)

  • Linda McFarland says:

    Wow…super romantic, sexy, sizzling , ….can’t wait to read more of Katherine Ashe’s books…and ‘Captured By A Rogue’…looks to be quite interesting too…….

  • Shannon says:

    Thank you for your post (and all the comments here as well). Always interesting to see everyone’s opinions about these characters. I’m still a Darcy supporter with Brandon in second. But most of the time I like them all.

    • I know! It’s so easy to love Austen’s heroes, Shannon. It’s true that Wentworth is my favorite, but these days for me the others all come in very close seconds — except perhaps Edmund, whom I never really went for. But perhaps it’s simply time to reread MP and see if he strikes me differently this time. He is such a good friend to Fanny, after all, and that’s crucial in a romantic relationship. Thanks for commenting!

  • chris bails says:

    This book looks great and would love to win and read. Love katherines books. Thanks for the giveaway.

  • LilMissMolly says:

    I’ve always been partial to Col. Brandon myself. I think that’s why I married an Army officer myself 20 years ago. :cool:

  • Wow. I’m not interested in boy next door type, but you’ve made me fall in love with Knightley…a little.

    I agree with LilMissMolly here–you’ve left out Colonel Brandon! He’s sexier than Knightley!

  • Here was heartbreak and loneliness and buried longings and a quiet devastation of years. Here was pain born of loving too much and trusting in that love too little. Here was a man who had gone into the world believing himself unloved who himself had never ceased loving, despite his efforts to do precisely that.

    Katharine, I’m so sorry I’m late to the party. I thought the above was beautifully said. It put so much into perspective for me (I’m a die-hard Darcy fan, but Wentworth has always been a close second in my opinion. You might have narrowed that divide just a bit there!)

    Best of luck to you on your new release – it sounds exciting!

    Susan A

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